Jealous

I’m jealous of men.-Me

Men? what? why? you are so independent and strong women keerthana.- My minime

we women, being strong and independent nowadays. But though, not so independent in society, literally I could say, we are not free of fear. We all have that fear of being sexually assaulted when we go on a bus, train or some sort of random crowd. sometimes we are jealous of men, ’cause they don’t have the fear of walking to the beach at 9 and I know, its silly but we suffer from cage-bird illness. I also know men also get assaulted. But you see, when a woman and a man walk in the road, the percent of she being assaulted is 89% and man being assaulted is 57%. since the percent is more and so we are talking about it more.we always talk things like leading a cool independent life. But as a gender equality-minded woman she needs to face certain stereotypical words and reactions from some coward human beings( it could be women or men). First of all, “feminism” is not an offensive word you see, and a woman who talks about gender equality and gender stereotypes is not a one, who hates men or the one who insults cultural norms but actually, i agree, they are the one,who don’t follow stereotypical cultural norms. I have seen lots of women, who are actually feminist by birth but fails to admit it, in the fear of being judged. Initially, we need to rip off the stereotypical notions that people have on feminist. And right, we feminist are here, trying to have at least an atom level change on this earth with just by our actions and words.

As Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie says” we should all be feminist”

Not only women, who can involve in this movement but also men who believe gender equality is mandatory to have a humanism in this world. And by equality, we cant do all the mistake which men do and say its feminism.When things which you do, hurts the other human then its obviously wrong, and we shouldn’t justify that by gender stereotypes.

So always proud to say “I’m a feminist”.