She is…

You say, she is rude…

Yes, she is.

Does that bother you?

Yaa, I know you say yes!

And also, I know that she hurts you.

Yes, You may think that she’s an sadistic woman.

But please do have a second thought,

That, why this woman behave so,?

Yes.. she absolutely have a fucking reason

As why she do so-’cause being rude is not her cup of tea.

You think she has a heart being made of a black hard stone.

But I say, you hardly see her heart which was broken down into pieces and shattered away all over the universe.

Did you ever noticed her swollen eyes.

I bet Yu haven’t. But it’s ok, she will

Hide her scars with her concealer, and paint her face to a gorgeous looking hot woman

And one thing, she will show you is her anger.

The anger of how you people changed a kind and good hearted woman to “the rude girl.”

You know,once she was a kind of girl, who hestiate to hurt even her foe
She even cares about them, in certain way.

But she was even more hurted not by her foe but by her ally.

But please don’t keep that shit pity face.

‘Cause she don’t want that from you. And she hate that too.

Now, you say her as rude, insolent and impudent girl.

No, But she is bold, sassy and confident women.

Love💓

-keerthana

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Find your identity

Why are you living the life of others, when you absolutely has an amazing one with you.

Dear fellow followers, Happy to meet you all virtually after a long time. I think you people could answer the poking questions of my heart.

Why?

Why are you living a life, by concealing your actual little self inside you? I know, you are here, not just because of you, but also because of certain dramas of this society. I actually love people, who show the world what their actual inner self-look like. Actually, that is not a normal act, but a brave act.

Why are you acting like a drama queen or king? This world doesn’t gonna cost you for the drama, you do. But it’s obvious, that it will push you into the ever-burning fire, that will choke off your full identity of life.

So, the time when you realize this, it would be late.

As one of the great minds of world Albert Einstein once said

A calm and modest life brings more happiness than the pursuit of success combined with constant restlessness.”

But just look at the world now, and think how our world thinks about happiness now.

Definition of “A successful life”:

1) A successful job in a reputed organization.( Juz wait, what would be a reputed organization?. Don’t worry, that will be decided by the society, even when they don’t have any sort of knowledge about the company history).

2) Successful marital life at the right age ( what would be the right age for men and women. Don’t worry again, that will also be decided by the society and don’t even consider whether that particular individual is ready for! )

3) A perfect house at the perfect location.

4) A big car ( big actually means bigger than what you need ).

5) A costly weekend party or some random trips ( just to post photos on your social media.)

6) The notion ” To lead the best life than every other” ( comparing your life, makes your life much worse. But this society ask you to compare, compare, compare. )

See, everyone have their own best life, but this society sets you a checklist and ask you to check the list forcefully.

Be in your own way. I know that you all are practiced to be in the way, how Society wants you to be. But just try hard not to get bewitched by our society. And also “don’t imitate others, everyone has their own way”. I don’t say, don’t get inspired by others. But I say ” get inspired and do it by your own way, ’cause you have your own style”.

So, Do you all dare to find your identity?!

Fact behind women not allowed in Hindu temples during MENSTRUATION

I know all Indians, know about this Indian custom,( which I mentioned in title). May be, many people say different mythological stories. But there is a deep science fact behind every custom followed by ancient Indians. And no custom says “women are dirty or impure during menstruating period, and so they are meant to stay away from temples”. These people who interpret them wrongly and do say these in their ignorance.

So read the link and get to know. The science behind customs.

bleeding power ….

Fake it, untill you become it

The title seems likes little confusion, is it fellow bloggers.?

’cause, I have already written something about fakism,which says don’t be fake, try to be you , however the way you are.But this is something different from that. People always say this” being a liar is good at certain times”. In the same peculiar way, we could benefit from being fake.

As the Indian monk Vivekananda says” what you think is what you become”. The same way is, what you believe you are, is what you are. Little confusing right, the same I say is, just try to fake it what you actually want to be. In the event of time, you will become what you are, without your concious.

It’s great, isn’t people!

The way you want to be, will increase the confidence in you. When you start being “what you want to be”, eventually you will end up being happy too.

I swear people, you could see a change in few days.just give it a try!.

Caution: I’m sure, you would fail sometimes, because people around you will ask you about your sudden change continuously and comment on it too. So have an “don’t care attitude” and move on.

P.S- thanks to @Amy cuddy-TED talks

Taboo

It’s time… Not the time to go anywhere but the time for my impure blood to unleash from my wonderful body. Yaaa….. I’m on my superwomen day.

I know, you people may think, ” hey lady, it’s just normal and usual thing for a woman, what are you gonna talk about ?.(it could be a usual thing though). But guys, I need to say this.

Usually when girls at this time, use to say” oh god, why do you given such a curse to women,”. But to me ” I love pain”. I’m fond of menstruation pain.(*it looks a little bit crazy *). But yes, I love the pain. this pain will make me much more strong and healthy. And actually, I’m a PCOD patient, I do have irregular periods. Sometimes I would be longing for the menstruation pain. Only PCOD patients know the value of menstruation period. And this pain will make me free from depression, anxiety, and obesity. The non-PCOD people don’t realize what this pain will make you free from, which another human being suffers from. Usually women have mood swings during their third phase of menstruation cycle.But for a PCOD patients, the mood swings retain every day and cause depressions at random times for no reason.And you have crazy hair growth (*LOL, its actually facial hair or body hair), and even when you do waxing or any sort of hair removal treatment, your hair grows super quick. Your hormones will work such horrible way, dude. So we, long for such menstruation pain which is better than other pains of PCOD.

So don’t hate the pain, which is giving you the full treasure of life. So believe me, embrace your pain.

Jealous

I’m jealous of men.-Me

Men? what? why? you are so independent and strong women keerthana.- My minime

we women, being strong and independent nowadays. But though, not so independent in society, literally I could say, we are not free of fear. We all have that fear of being sexually assaulted when we go on a bus, train or some sort of random crowd. sometimes we are jealous of men, ’cause they don’t have the fear of walking to the beach at 9 and I know, its silly but we suffer from cage-bird illness. I also know men also get assaulted. But you see, when a woman and a man walk in the road, the percent of she being assaulted is 89% and man being assaulted is 57%. since the percent is more and so we are talking about it more.we always talk things like leading a cool independent life. But as a gender equality-minded woman she needs to face certain stereotypical words and reactions from some coward human beings( it could be women or men). First of all, “feminism” is not an offensive word you see, and a woman who talks about gender equality and gender stereotypes is not a one, who hates men or the one who insults cultural norms but actually, i agree, they are the one,who don’t follow stereotypical cultural norms. I have seen lots of women, who are actually feminist by birth but fails to admit it, in the fear of being judged. Initially, we need to rip off the stereotypical notions that people have on feminist. And right, we feminist are here, trying to have at least an atom level change on this earth with just by our actions and words.

As Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie says” we should all be feminist”

Not only women, who can involve in this movement but also men who believe gender equality is mandatory to have a humanism in this world. And by equality, we cant do all the mistake which men do and say its feminism.When things which you do, hurts the other human then its obviously wrong, and we shouldn’t justify that by gender stereotypes.

So always proud to say “I’m a feminist”.

Dear Marriage

Hi..My fellow followers, it’s glad to meet you all virtually again. Today I’m gonna share my favourite post

Click the link below,

Dear marriage

By, Paperless Postcards….

Many of us, feel the same, but don’t know how to explain it, in a very understandable manner. But here, the author delicately explains it,but also in a very strong way.

Just shared, because I want everyone to read this wonderful article.

Bairn struggles

Hi my fellow bloggers,

I have an important topic to discuss with you all today.

Guess what???

Today, when I was watching the news channel, there was an incident happened in my city(Chennai). You know what!, A doctor had given sleeping dose to a 7 year old girl, did you get it, a 7 YEAR OLD girl and raped her to death.😔

So, tell me, all those sterotypical aunties,uncle,men and women, what was the reason for this incident. May be the little girl’s hint of thighs in her cute little skirt. May be the girl went to doctor at late night. May be she is a girl. Is that her fault even now?

Education doesn’t reshape human mind from stereotypes. There is only one difference between educated and uneducated people. Educated people knows how to do horrible things in secretive.And uneducated doesn’t know that. I usually think education can change people mind. But now I think it’s all vain.

A hopeless day😶

Satisfaction=Successful

Satisfied life is better than Successful life.

No working stream is prestigious than other one.Its all how you feel about yourself. Because success is measured by other people not by your inner soul. When you get what you love as your career, then you are the blessed one than the famed one on this world.

The way you love your life makes you the eminent person on this universe.Law of attraction phenomenon is true and I believe in that. You, the human being is the most powerful person on this galaxy. The power you have, will reach you, only when you believe yourself.

So… BELIEVE IN YOU.

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