Fact behind women not allowed in Hindu temples during MENSTRUATION

I know all Indians, know about this Indian custom,( which I mentioned in title). May be, many people say different mythological stories. But there is a deep science fact behind every custom followed by ancient Indians. And no custom says “women are dirty or impure during menstruating period, and so they are meant to stay away from temples”. These people who interpret them wrongly and do say these in their ignorance.

So read the link and get to know. The science behind customs.

bleeding power ….

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Fake it, untill you become it

The title seems likes little confusion, is it fellow bloggers.?

’cause, I have already written something about fakism,which says don’t be fake, try to be you , however the way you are.But this is something different from that. People always say this” being a liar is good at certain times”. In the same peculiar way, we could benefit from being fake.

As the Indian monk Vivekananda says” what you think is what you become”. The same way is, what you believe you are, is what you are. Little confusing right, the same I say is, just try to fake it what you actually want to be. In the event of time, you will become what you are, without your concious.

It’s great, isn’t people!

The way you want to be, will increase the confidence in you. When you start being “what you want to be”, eventually you will end up being happy too.

I swear people, you could see a change in few days.just give it a try!.

Caution: I’m sure, you would fail sometimes, because people around you will ask you about your sudden change continuously and comment on it too. So have an “don’t care attitude” and move on.

P.S- thanks to @Amy cuddy-TED talks

Taboo

It’s time… Not the time to go anywhere but the time for my impure blood to unleash from my wonderful body. Yaaa….. I’m on my superwomen day.

I know, you people may think, ” hey lady, it’s just normal and usual thing for a woman, what are you gonna talk about ?.(it could be a usual though). But guys, I need to say this.

Usually when girls at this time, use to say” oh god, why do you given such a curse to women,”. But to me ” I love pain”. I’m fond of menstruation pain.(*it looks a little bit crazy *). But yes, I love the pain. this pain will make me much more strong and healthy. And actually, I’m a PCOD patient, I do have irregular periods. Sometimes I would be longing for the menstruation pain. Only PCOD patients know the value of menstruation period. And this pain will make me free from depression, anxiety, and obesity. The non-PCOD people don’t realize what this pain will make you free from, which another human being suffers from. Usually women have mood swings during their third phase of menstruation cycle.But for a PCOD patients, the mood swings retain every day and cause depressions at random times for no reason.And you have crazy hair growth (*LOL, its actually facial hair or body hair), and even when you do waxing or any sort of hair removal treatment you hair grows super quick. Your hormones will work such horrible way, dude. So we, long for such menstruation pain which is better than other pains of PCOD.

So don’t hate the pain, which is giving you the full treasure of life. So believe me, embrace your pain.

 

 

 

Jealous

I’m jealous of men.-Me

Men? what? why? you are so independent and strong women keerthana.- My minime

we women, being strong and independent nowadays. But though, not so independent in society, literally I could say, we are not free of fear. We all have that fear of being sexually assaulted when we go on a bus, train or some sort of random crowd. sometimes we are jealous of men, ’cause they don’t have the fear of walking to the beach at 9 and I know, its silly but we suffer from cage-bird illness. I also know men also get assaulted. But you see, when a woman and man walk in the road, the percent of she being assaulted is 89% and man being assaulted is 57%. since the percent is more and so we are talking about it more.we always talk things like leading a cool independent life. But as a gender equality-minded woman she needs to face certain stereotypical words and reactions from some retarded human beings( it could be women or men). First of all, “feminism” is not an offensive word you see, and a woman who talks about gender equality and gender stereotypes is not a one, who hates men or the one who insults cultural norms but actually, i agree, they are the one don’t follow stereotypical cultural norms.  I have seen lots of women, who are actually feminist by birth but fails to admit it, in the fear of being judged. Initially, we need to rip off the stereotypical notions people have on feminist. And right, we feminist are here, trying to have at least an atom level change on this earth with just by our actions and words.

As Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie says” we should all be feminist”

Not only women, who can involve in this movement but also men who believe gender equality is mandatory to have a humanism in this world. And by equality, we cant do all the mistake which men do and say its feminism.When things which you do, hurts the other human then its obviously wrong, and we shouldn’t justify that by gender stereotypes.

So always proud to say “I’m a feminist”.

 

Dear Marriage

Hi..My fellow followers, it’s glad to meet you all virtually again. Today I’m gonna share my favourite post

Click the link below,

Dear marriage

By, Paperless Postcards….

Many of us, feel the same, but don’t know how to explain it, in a very understandable manner. But here, the author delicately explains it,but also in a very strong way.

Just shared, because I want everyone to read this wonderful article.

Bairn struggles

Hi my fellow bloggers,

I have an important topic to discuss with you all today.

Guess what???

Today, when I was watching the news channel, there was an incident happened in my city(Chennai). You know what!, A doctor had given sleeping dose to a 7 year old girl, did you get it, a 7 YEAR OLD girl and raped her to death.😔

So, tell me, all those sterotypical aunties,uncle,men and women, what was the reason for this incident. May be the little girl’s hint of thighs in her cute little skirt. May be the girl went to doctor at late night. May be she is a girl. Is that her fault even now?

Education doesn’t reshape human mind from stereotypes. There is only one difference between educated and uneducated people. Educated people knows how to do horrible things in secretive.And uneducated doesn’t know that. I usually think education can change people mind. But now I think it’s all vain.

A hopeless day😶

Satisfaction=Successful

Satisfied life is better than Successful life.

No working stream is prestigious than other one.Its all how you feel about yourself. Because success is measured by other people not by your inner soul. When you get what you love as your career, then you are the blessed one than the famed one on this world.

The way you love your life makes you the eminent person on this universe.Law of attraction phenomenon is true and I believe in that. You, the human being is the most powerful person on this galaxy. The power you have, will reach you, only when you believe yourself.

So… BELIEVE IN YOU.

Wonder women

Though she is a strong woman, she fails at times. Her friends always told her that she is very strong and powerful woman.But her inner-self tentatively ask her ” are you really strong? or you are strong since because you are not aware of the real world.” when her inner-self asked her so, she was completely perplexed about herself. While walking, she was introspective about her question for few grains of hours. In the event of thinking, she got to know it was around 10:30 and unfortunately, there were only a few people on her way to her home.

As every other woman, there rises the very feeble and fragile nature of oneself. “THE FEAR”. the fear of everything. Even her shadow frightens her.  The fear of her life, the fear of unfortunate moments, the lonely streets, the blinking lights, drunken citizens, the fear of being a WOMAN. These fears rushed her fast.But as she came home safely, she realizes the question of her inner-self.

ARE YOU REALLY STRONG ENOUGH?, TO FACE YOUR REAL SITUATIONS, THE BAD MOMENTS, THE UNFORTUNATE MOMENTS OF YOURS DAILY LIFE ?

THINK ABOUT IT…..this day may come to you at any time or at any day. you can’t plan and face your situations. So be prepared by equipping yourselves by fighting…. I mean literally ready to fight. There are no wonder women in this world, every woman is wonder women for herself, so help yourself.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Say NO to fakism

me: why are you hiding yourself keerthana, the real you, the unique you, the special you? why so?

Fake me: Because that’s what I taught to….

me: what!! taught to be fake, to cheat yourself!!

Fake me: I’m not cheating, this is the way I was forced to behave. If not I would always be hurt by the one around. That’s what they taught me….I was forced to say yes when I badly want to say No. I should say sorry for no mistake I did. I was molded to be a fake me by the great shaping instrument of all time, Stereotypes.

Me: Believe me, Don’t fall for stereotypes, they don’t tend to be correct always. Even the one who is hurting you around would be a prisoner of stereotypes. When you start being yourself, you may satisfy you, but not all.I could see that all souls waiting for their parole time.Everybody wants to be real, so give a start for being you. Lets see the rebel of fake one.Even their rebel is fake too.And they do want to join the real you people.Don’t afraid of fake people words, they are just fake as they are!!

BE YOU, LET THE PEOPLE JUDGE YOUR REAL YOU, NOT YOUR FAKE YOU…..

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